The Ageing process is funny because till the time the competitive clock is running we keep chasing it, but the moment we realise that the clock is not going to stop, we try reversing the dials.
In our rush to reach the top of the mountain most of us forget that there is only one way to come down, that is to actually come down, which is somewhat similar to the biological process. No matter what, the bones will become weak and the skin will get wrinkles.
The larger point of debate is, do our priorities change as we grow older and if yes, then why?
What has age got to do with the quest for success and being number One? Is it a natural process for survival or is it a systematic programming by our parents and society at large?
While on one hand; money, fame, success is important to chase in life otherwise most of us would probably become yogis but then how come all these elements lose their shine when one is sick and/or on the death bed?
Why does the crisp green notes and all the glittering gold become irrelevant when we have no one to talk to especially family members and children?
In my opinion, the world focus is slowly taking stock of all work and no play, because people are realising the importance of relationships, bonding and a happy life along with financial security.
Over the past few years, I have seen that as we age the most important factor in life becomes to remain visible in family and in community, but unfortunately many older people are simply shut in the closet because they are seen as old furniture which cannot be displayed in public.
These days the independent oldies don’t bother about what the younger generation will think of them, they are not here to impress anyone, the only thing they want is to be productive, live a happy life and let others live.
Pankaj Mehrotra
